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Curo Help Butler - Exquisite Service. Anywhere in the World.

Elite butlers delivering professional, discreet, and world-class household service for UHNW families, estates, yachts and luxury residences globally.

We provide highly trained butlers to UHNW families, private estates, and distinguished residences worldwide. Each professional is carefully selected for expertise in luxury household management, etiquette, and personalized service. From overseeing household operations to curating bespoke experiences for family and guests, our butlers ensure seamless service delivered with discretion, precision, and elegance.

Household Management Support – Coordinating staff, schedules, and household operations to perfection.
Guest & Event Service – Delivering impeccable service for private dinners, celebrations, and corporate events.
Travel & Relocation Assistance – Seamlessly managing logistics for family travel and multiple residences.
Wine, Spirits & Cellar Management – Expert oversight of fine wines, spirits, and inventory.
Personal Concierge Service – Discreetly managing personal requests, errands, and lifestyle needs.
Integration with Household Staff – Working harmoniously with chefs, housekeepers, estate managers, and other staff.
Private Residence Butler – Day-to-day household management with grace and discretion.
Yacht Butler – Luxury hospitality and impeccable service at sea.
Family Butler – Trusted long-term support for households, children, and family logistics.

Luxury living deserves service at the highest standard.
Our elite butlers provide elegance, discretion, and seamless support — ensuring your household operates flawlessly anywhere in the world.

Types of Butler available

1. Traditional / Household Butler
• Manages the daily running of the household.
• Oversees staff, maintains household standards, and manages formal service.
• Often trained in silver service, etiquette, and high-end hospitality.

2. Estate / Head Butler
• Leads a team of butlers and household staff across a large estate or multiple properties.
• Coordinates estate operations, staff rotas, and household budgets.
• Ensures consistency and excellence across all areas of service.

3. Private / Personal Butler
• Dedicated to one family member or individual.
• Handles personal schedules, wardrobe management, travel logistics, and VIP liaison.
• Offers highly personalised service and discretion.

4. Travel Butler / Lifestyle Butler
• Accompanies the family on international travel, yachts, and private jets.
• Maintains household service standards in different residences or temporary locations.
• Ensures seamless continuity of luxury service regardless of location.

5. Valet-Butler
• Combines personal wardrobe management with traditional butler duties.
• Prepares clothing, accessories, and personal items for events or travel.
• Works closely with private assistants and household managers.

6. Wine / Cellar Butler
• Specialises in wine cellar management, fine wine service, and etiquette.
• Advises on collections, acquisitions, and event pairings.
• Often works in combination with head or estate butlers.

7. Yacht / Superyacht Butler
• Trained for marine hospitality, serving guests aboard yachts.
• Integrates with crew to ensure formal dining, guest comfort, and itinerary support.
• Works closely with captains, chefs, and deck staff.

8. Specialist Butler (Hybrid Roles)
• Combines butler duties with other household expertise, e.g.:
o Household management
o Security liaison
o Event coordination
o Private chef support

UHNW families often hire hybrid or multi-skilled butlers, ensuring they can manage households, travel, events, and personal needs seamlessly, all with discretion and impeccable professionalism.

Primary Butler Duties

Household Management

Overseeing daily operations of the residence

Managing staff (housekeepers, chefs, drivers, nannies, gardeners)

Coordinating schedules and duties

Supervising service standards and cleanliness throughout the home

Formal Service & Guest Relations

Greeting guests and providing a high level of hospitality

Serving meals and drinks (often silver service or formal dining)

Setting and clearing dining tables for formal or informal events

Assisting with parties, dinners, and special events

Maintaining discretion, professionalism, and etiquette

Wardrobe and Valet Services

Caring for employer’s wardrobe (laundering, ironing, organizing)

Packing/unpacking for travel

Polishing shoes, steaming garments, maintaining suits and accessories

Inventory & Procurement

Monitoring household supplies and reordering as needed

Managing fine wines, cigars, and valuables

Purchasing gifts or special items for the family

Administrative and Security Oversight

Managing household budgets, petty cash, and expense records

Liaising with vendors, contractors, and maintenance personnel

Ensuring home security protocols are followed

Coordinating family travel and transportation logistics

Optional or Specialized Duties

Driving duties (chauffeuring if no driver is employed)

Caring for pets or exotic animals

Tech and smart home system management

Assisting with personal errands or appointments

Overseeing renovations or property maintenance projects

Essential Butler Skills and Qualities

Impeccable manners, discretion, and professionalism

Strong leadership and communication

Multitasking and problem-solving under pressure

High attention to detail and organization

Formal training (e.g., butler or hospitality schools)

Butler Professional & Technical Skills

Household Management

Overseeing staff and delegating tasks

Managing household budgets, inventories, and schedules

Coordinating with contractors, vendors, and service providers

Formal Service & Etiquette

Table setting (informal to silver service)

Food and beverage service, including wine and cocktail knowledge

Hosting formal events and private dinners with discretion and elegance

Valet & Wardrobe Care

Garment care: ironing, steaming, organizing wardrobes

Shoe polishing and accessory maintenance

Packing and unpacking for business or leisure travel

Administrative & Logistical Skills

Booking travel and transportation

Maintaining calendars and reminders

Running errands and handling confidential requests

Security and Property Oversight

Understanding of home security systems

Monitoring guest and visitor access

Ensuring protocols for emergencies and privacy

Butler Soft Skills & Personal Traits

Discretion & Confidentiality – To handle sensitive matters professionally

Attention to Detail – Key for excellence in presentation and service

Polished Communication – For interacting with VIPs, staff, and vendors

Flexibility & Adaptability – To manage changes, last-minute requests, or travel

Leadership & Team Management – Especially when supervising other staff

Cultural Awareness & Etiquette – For international households or high-profile employers

Loyalty & Integrity – Builds long-term trust in private service roles

Bonus Skills (Depending on Role)

Multilingual abilities (especially in international households)

Driver’s license (for chauffeur duties)

Tech-savviness (smart homes, high-end appliances, security systems)

Wine, cigar, or fine art knowledge

Essential Butler Qualifications

Formal Butler Training or Certification

Completion of a professional butler school or academy is highly recommended, especially for high-end roles. Reputable institutions include:

The British Butler Institute (UK)

The International Butler Academy (Netherlands)

Starkey International Institute (USA)

Charles MacPherson Academy (Canada)

Topics covered include household management, etiquette, valet service, formal dining, and discretion

High School Diploma or Equivalent

Often the minimum educational requirement

Further education in hospitality, business, or management is a plus

Experience in Private Service or Hospitality

Prior experience as a butler, house manager, hotel concierge, personal assistant, or valet is typically required

Valuable Certifications (Optional but Preferred)

Silver Service Training – For formal dining and event hosting

Wine & Beverage Knowledge (e.g., WSET) – For managing wine cellars and pairing

First Aid/CPR Certification – Adds value for families or VIP households

Defensive/Professional Driver Training – If chauffeur duties are included

Smart Home & Tech Systems Training – For modern households with advanced systems

Other Requirements

Clean background check and strong references

Valid passport & travel readiness (especially for traveling butlers or yachts)

Fluent English (or other relevant language) depending on household needs

Impeccable grooming and professional presentation

Soft Qualifications / Traits

While not formal certifications, these are equally important:

Absolute discretion and confidentiality

Strong organizational and multitasking ability

Professionalism, loyalty, and calm under pressure

Excellent communication and cultural awareness

Butler - Live in or Live Out

A butler can be employed as either live-in or live-out, depending on your preferences, the household size, and the scope of responsibilities. Here’s a breakdown to help understand the key differences:

Live-In Butler

A live-in butler resides on the employer’s property, often in separate staff quarters or a private apartment within the estate or residence.

Typical Setup:

Works full-time with flexible hours, often early mornings to late evenings

Available for on-call duties, late events, or emergencies

May work 5–6 days per week, with room and board included

Benefits:

Always on-site for high availability

Ideal for large estates, formal households, or VIP families

More immersive relationship with the household and staff

Accommodation and meals usually provided

Drawbacks:

Less personal privacy and separation from work

Higher expectations for flexibility and discretion

May involve travel with the employer or seasonal relocation

Live-Out Butler

A live-out butler commutes to work daily and does not live on the employer’s property.

Typical Setup:

Works fixed hours (e.g., 8 AM – 6 PM) or according to a custom schedule

May work part-time or full-time

Suitable for city homes, smaller households, or less formal settings

Benefits:

Clear boundary between work and personal life

More privacy for both the butler and the employer

Drawbacks:

Less flexibility for late-night or emergency needs

Not ideal for large or high-profile households requiring 24/7 presence

Commuting logistics may affect reliability or availability

Which to Choose?

Formal household with frequent guests – Live-in might be better

Large estate or multiple properties – Live-in might be better

Smaller or urban household – Live-out might be better

Limited need for evening or weekend help – Live-out might be better

Household prefers discretion and full-time availability – Live-in might be better